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Learn how to configure Zabbix to send alerts to you via email (SMTP).
A diagram showing how the configuration and settings files override each other in PHP FPM, which may answer your question about why your setting/config file may not be having any effect.
Learn how to disable particular email alerts from Wordfence.
Instructions on how to install the Jellyfin client on Ubuntu through Flatpak.